Eliminating Weakness

I am continuously reminded that we are much greater than what we appear and that it is our God-given right to be successful and all that we can be.  However, many times we are not.  It's interesting to me that for such evolved creatures we seem to be no better off than God's other creatures.  We do not flow as easily allowing perfection to replace abberations, but we are provided with a conscious mind so that we are able to remove the weakness that is given so much power within our lives.

As difficult as it seems at times, we must endeavor to remember that the Universal Power within us will always be greater and is there to help us overcome our self-defeating attitudes.  We must break the habit and replace it with a new one and stop giving it power.  It is essential that we allow the power within to shine brighter than the weakness.

This reminds me of those that are jailed or held captive that use their energy for their greater good rather than dwell or focus on the situation they face and become buried alive by it.  Their positive efforts eventually take them beyond their situation and closer to their own God power within.

Confrontation within us is just as powerful as it is without and makes absolute sense.  We see interventions with those affected by drugs and how they are confronted by others pointing out the negative and damaging affects of their disease.  You can see that the one affected craves a better existence, but is stuck in their cloud of beliefs and feel powerless to overcome it.  Once they are confronted, surrender and take action they move closer to a more successful life.

Confronting our pain, weaknesses or fears rather than running away from it, ignoring it or pushing it down inside ourselves, allows us to overcome it.  What we resist, persists.  Face them, acknowlege them and then send them away.

Meditation for Success

Meditation - one of the best ways to keep the lines of communication open to our Higher Self.  It also solidifies the concept of something "bigger than myself".

Like anything, meditation as a means to keep connected to who we truly are, can be learned and become second nature.  As the saying goes, "practice makes perfect".  It is easier to continually "practice" meditation as a way of connecting to our True Self than it is to stop and start again.  Sometimes we have intentions of doing something that will take us deeper in our lives, but then it tapers off and we eventually stop.  Beginning something new is always difficult and takes adjustment, but if we continue daily and push through the down times we become stronger and more confident.  Eventually it becomes our reality.

It is difficult to go against the grain of society even if it is something we believe in and I now believe there are three things that can help us succeed:

1. Remember that, although we are all one with each other, everyone's reality is different so you must do what is right for you when it comes to connecting with your True Self.
2. As sure as you are in your doubts, you can turn it around and become equally as sure in your abilities. 
3. Although it may be challenging at times, remember that you are not alone.  Our soul is always with us, waiting to inspire us to turn our thoughts into things.

I've always felt that maybe I was not one to be successful at meditation and I am thrilled to realize that the intention of connecting during meditation helps to keep the "lines of communication" open to my Higher Self.  This alone gives me encouragement.

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SUCCESS CONSCIOUSNESS

An important key to being successful in anything in life is to have a success consciousness.  What does that mean?  Let me explain.

Over time I've learned that the subconscious mind and the conscious mind are actually one in the same, although they serve two different purposes, if you will.  As such, they are closely linked together and work congruently in that one is always influencing the other, but only one has power over the other.

The subconscious mind stores our beliefs, much like your computer hard drive, that influence how we act, think and speak on a conscious level.  This is also where our negative attitude is stored.  Our conscious mind retains information we require to carry out our daily activities.  Consciousness is another word for awareness.  Our awareness functions either on a positive or negative frequency.

In our awareness or consciousness, we have the ability to make choices, based on either a positive or negative mental attitude and for some that is a fine line to walk because, I believe, many people do not feel they have the power to control it.  They feel like a victim by the events in their lives, but do not take notice of the hints provided by their higher power to shine through.

For example, when things are going well and all looks positive, we seem more creative and make decisions with more confidence.  We say things like, "God was on my side" or "Someone was watching over me".  We tend to ignore these hints by sabotaging the efforts of the subconscious mind and thus bury the true power of who we really are.

When we are born, we begin our lives as our true positive selves with a close connection to our higher power, but slowly our subconscious begins to fill with negative messages and the connection begins to fade into the background.  We see this in children all the time as adults encourage them to "be realistic" by suppressing or ignoring their expanding thoughts.  We were meant to be positive, not negative.

Our consciousness, when in a positive state, holds the key to unlocking our Universal or God Power to be able to reach our subconsious mind, and in so doing, our true potential.  Once the choice is made to have a positive mental attitude and we direct our efforts to expand our consciousness, we can change our useless or negative beliefs, thus bringing us closer to our true selves.  It is only when we expand our consciousness that our true selves fully emerge and we see what we are truly capable of.

Need Help With Your New Year's Resolutions/Goals?

Do you love them or hate them?  I'm talking about New Year's Resolutions.  The time that we close the door on one year and open a window on the next to new experiences.

If you're like me, I always look forward to a new year.  Sort of wiping the slate clean and starting fresh.  A time to set some new goals for myself and helping others do the same.  Although most fail at following through with their resolutions, a new year provides a powerful jumping off point for some.  Especially for those who have a difficult time knowing where or how to begin making the changes they want.

That's where I come in.  I live to help people transform and empower their lives.  To show people HOW to do that and providing the tools to help.  I am a cheerleader for change!

Do you have a plan for yourself?  Whether it's the beginning of a new year or not, it's never too late improve or change your life, to live as you were meant to and deserve to.  Maybe a Life Coach can help.  A personal trainer for your life.  Have you ever thought of hiring a Life Coach?  The benefits are endless really.

Coaching has been proven to work when the client is willing to grow and when there is an obvious gap between where the client is and where he or she wants to be.  With a coach the client will:


MAKE BROADER ACTIONS

Ultimately, all of us do what we want to do under any circumstance. To find out what you really want for yourself is our first task. I help you to distinguish between what you coulda, shoulda, oughta and have to do to get where you want to go. Once you understand and create your ideal goal, you are much more likely to take action to reach it.
 
HAVE A BALANCED LIFE


Having it all means having a balanced life. And in doing so, it often means that we must be selfish. I will work with you to help assist you in a plan that will get your needs met by establishing a personal foundation.

MAKE FINANCIAL FREEDOM

Money. We have to have it. Chances are you know that you can make more money. I will work with you to assist you in ways to look at advancing your income, pay off old bills, set up a financial plan, and help design a strategy for you to earn more from your professional efforts in the future.

REACH FOR MORE AND MORE

When anyone has a partner they trust, they will always reach for more because they can afford to. Having a partner also makes you accountable to someone other than yourself which helps to provide motivation.

MAKE BETTER DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR BUSINESS

Every single client of mine is smart. Yet, they still use me. Why, because everyone can use a sounding board, share ideas with someone who understands them and is subjective enough to want a lot for them. Just in talking about your options with someone who can listen and often provide valuable feedback helps issues to become crystal clear. You will always get honest, constructive views.

HAVE A LOT MORE SUSTAINABLE ENERGY

When you are happy, productive and free from tolerations and problems, you are always going to feel better!
 
So, what do you think?  Maybe you don't need a Life Coach.  Why not take a Life Evaluator Assessment and find out for yourself.  Can't hurt, right?
 
Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best for 2010.  Now, go dream big!

How To Make Your Dreams Come True

Now, I must admit this is not going to be as deep as the title suggests, but simply an example of how anyone is capable of manifesting the things they want in life.  This example is something that happened to me last weekend.

My husband and I had just gone to bed and I said "I would love to go out for a wonderful breakfast and have something rich, like eggs benny."  Now this statement has meaning because my husband and I started following the weight watchers program about six months ago, so needless to say this wish was big.

By the way, collectively, we have lost 80 lbs and to tell you the truth, it wasn't really that hard.  That's another subject, but I wanted to give you an idea of how much that "wish" meant to me.  I had no intention of going out for that kind of breakfast the next morning, but my husband was there with me in that thought.  Shortly afterwards I fell asleep and that was the end of it.  Or was it?

The next day we had to travel to another city for business reasons and on the way back my husband suggested we stop for lunch.  Sure, why not I say.  Well, we walked into the restaurant and right there in front of me on a big white boad was the special that day.  Want to guess what it was?  Eggs Benny!!  While looking at the menu, my husband said, "Have the eggs benny.  It's want you wanted."  True.

Needless to say I ordered it, ate it and never once did I regret it.    Really, I had placed my order the night before.  Simply put, I asked for something and the Universe delivered.

You're probably thinking to yourself big deal, it's just a coincidence.  But that's what coincidences are.  They are wishes we put out there into the Universe that are answered.  The key is recognizing it.

Everyday we send out requests or wishes but not the intention of being open to receiving them.  We ignore the signs all around us while waiting for the big slap in the face.  You don't need the slap in the face because those are usually the "big holes" we need to dig ourselves out of.  Those are the people that keep ignoring the little signs and wake up only when it's staring them in the face.

Next time you "wish" for something in your head or out loud, be aware of the possibilities around you because if you really look, you will see them everywhere.  Maybe not on a white board, but they're there.

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Cheers,
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